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The psychology of loneliness

Edited by Jill Wright,

the psychology of loneliness

It seems that one of the consequences of modern life is a growing epidemic of loneliness.

In Britain, loneliness is increasingly being viewed as a serious public health issue, particularly in those older than 60, that is beginning to be addressed by local government programs and the National Health Service.

As the fascinating New York Times article reveals, fire brigades have even been trained to inspect homes not just for fire safety but also for signs of social isolation.

In Australia, earlier this year, psychologists at Melbourne's Swinburne University found that the toll of loneliness can include depression, social anxiety and paranoia. Like so many mental health conditions, it can even lead to physical ailments and earlier death. In fact, loneliness is a greater predictor of early death than obesity.

Dr Michael Lim, clinical psychologist and lead researcher at Swinburne's Brain and Psychological Sciences Research Centre offered some helpful advice on countering loneliness:

  • Recognise loneliness and understand that it's a signal to do something different to what you usually do.
  • Try positive ways of interacting with others that includes healthy food, exercise and fresh air.
  • Show positive body language as it shows others that you are interested in what they're saying.
  • A therapist or counsellor can help you break out of the vicious cycle of loneliness. Your doctor or GP is usually the first port of call.

The Swinburne centre is working on a self-help app, due for release later this year. I'm sure it's going to be helpful, but somehow I find the idea of using a self-help app makes me feel ever so slightly ... lonely.

I prefer the idea of getting on the phone and talking to someone - and Lifeline, for instance, makes that possible - although some people find talking to others difficult. That's definitely an area where psychologists can help.

Britain seems to be leading the UK - and Australia - in efforts to counter loneliness, with organisations such as the Campaign to End Loneliness, which involves five social-service agencies and about 2500 smaller organisations, and Age UK.

It would be great for Australia to follow the UK lead, with helpful resources such as those at Independent Age.


About the editor, Jill Wright

Jill Wright (MAPS, AAFT, AICD) is the Director and Principal Psychologist at Psychology Melbourne. Jill was twice elected General Director of the Australian Psychological Society and established the APS Victorian branch Study Group Network. Find out more about Jill Wright.